I wish good things for you.
although human beings are an unruly bunch and its not going to change anytime soon. The controlling of people's words and thoughts is a tricky matter when is it too much? We've all been through an extreme situation and we have to learn from that. So i don't know, personally I,m ok with the group I'm realistic and i won't place myself in judgement and demand everyone like me or listen to me and I'm not offended.
sending much love your way